Growing Through It - LaRocque Life Podcast Ep 41

Nov 23, 2022

We all know that life is full of ebbs and flows. There will always be struggles, challenges, and hard times, just like there will always be joy, pleasure, and happiness.

We’re also told to always aim and strive for good feelings and good times, and to avoid pain and struggle. Sounds great, right? Why would we want to seek out and embrace pain?

Well, simple.

The struggle is where the wisdom is, and it’s where the growth happens.

That’s why today we’re talking about how we can embrace the lesson in the experience, and lean into the hard things, and embrace them for what they’re teaching us instead of resisting the struggle.

Are you ready?

 

TIME STAMPS:

[1:35] There is wisdom in the pain.

[7:20] Embracing the things that are challenging in our lives.

[14:50] How we can waste time feeling sorry for ourselves instead of leaning into the struggle and learning from it.

[24:55] Navigating parenthood with sometimes sending mixed messages to kids and re-living our own shit.

[29:20] Letting go of the resistance is where the magic happens.

[31:25] Not getting help when you need it doesn’t help anyone - most importantly, yourself.

[36:23] Find your tribe, the people who will hold you accountable.

 

TAKEAWAYS:

  • Lean into the pain.

  • Ask yourself what the lesson is.

  • Get out of your ego.

  • Embrace the lesson.

 

QUOTES:

“We want what everyone else has but we don’t want to go through all of the pain and the struggle that they went through.” - Laura

“Your ego is the one stopping you because you think you’re this big strong person, but your own mind is doing it, your strong mind is keeping you beat down.” - Mike

“We’re always growing, it’s just whether we choose to see it or not.” - Laura

 

INTERESTING CLIPS:


[4:35 - 5:05] Feeling the pain to release the pain.

[10:23 - 10:50] We want what others have without the pain they went through to get it.

[33:12 - 33:52] It’s not silly or weak to seek help if you need it.

 

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