Don't Do It All Yourself - LaRocque Life Podcast Ep 42

Nov 23, 2022

Do you ever feel like you have to do everything yourself?

Or that you have to have everything figured out?

In this episode, we’re diving into the fallacy of doing everything yourself, and discussing not only why it’s a completely unrealistic expectation, but also how it’s detrimental to our well-being and our relationships.

And we’re talking about flipping the narrative to get away from this idea that men who seek help or support are “weak” - this belief is not doing ANYONE any favours!

 

TIME STAMPS:

[1:25] Today’s topic: doing it all yourself.

[4:35] Examples of when we feel like we have it have to all figured out.

[10:15] Seeking help is NOT a sign of weakness.

[15:00] Flipping the script on weakness.

[16:35] Your health matters, too.

[24:40] How being everything to everyone leads to procrastination.

[27:50] How feminine and masculine energy fit into this dynamic.

 

TAKEAWAYS:

  • You don’t have to have it all figured out.

  • Pave the way for others.

  • Your health matters.

  • Stay in your lane.

 

QUOTES:

“If you have to have everything all figured out, where’s the time to live, and relax, and enjoy being alive?” - Laura

“Being the rock is also a prison.” - Laura

“We’re so far away from manhood that most of us are these scared little boys that have no idea what is going on.” - Mike

“Don’t keep holding it - feel this shit, move through this shit, do what you have to do.” - Laura

 

INTERESTING CLIPS:


[7:20 - 7:55] Getting help from a third party can make a HUGE difference.

[11:55 - 12:50] Being so far away from manhood.

[15:30 - 15:50] Don’t be afraid to pave the way for others.

 

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